No, the Generous Member is not required to pay for any dates past the first date with that member. Generally the first date is the only date that should be paid for.

This occurs when 1) your profile has not yet been approved, or 2) you have not yet uploaded an approved public photo..

An accepted offer is required in order to be able to send a message. The date offer must be accepted by both parties. Members cannot send messages without an accepted offer. Generous members need to purchase credits in order to be able to read and send messages.

If neither of these are the problem, please contact Customer Support.